People always say, “once a cheater, always a cheater.” Now, I don’t think that’s true. Come on, there are multiple reasons why someone cheats. Okay, sure, there are guys who cannot remain in a monogamous relationship, but there are also other guys who cheat to fill a void that’s missing in themselves or their relationships.
You may be disagreeing, but then again, how would you really know unless you’ve cheated yourself?
10 signs that he is cheating on you
Well, coming from someone who did *and I’m not saying I’m proud of it*, that phrase is definitely the stereotypical line for cheaters. Do all men cheat? No. I cheated because I was unhappy in my relationship.
Should I have just broken up with him instead? Yeah, absolutely. But at the time I couldn’t do it. But, if you’re worried about being cheated on, there are some classic signs for you to follow. Believe me, I would know them.
#1 He accuses you of cheating. You may not even think that he’s cheating at the time, but if he’s starting to accuse you of texting people or changing the way you act when you haven’t been, well, then it’s time to start looking at what he’s doing. I noticed I did this to my ex when I was getting paranoid that he would find out.
#2 He stops having s*x with you. Well, don’t worry, he’s still having s*x… just not with you. If you notice that your s*xual patterns have changed suddenly, then that’s a pretty good sign that something happened.
It’s very hard to sleep with someone else while maintaining the same s*xual chemistry with another person. And this is one of the huge signs that he is cheating on you.
#3 He’s somewhat present. Oh, he’s there, sitting beside you on the couch while you watch Stranger Things, but he’s not actually there. He’s texting beside you. Who? Who knows. But if you’re noticing that the time you two spend together is basically you talking to yourself, well, it looks like he’s not in it anymore.
#4 He never actually tells you what he’s doing. All you know is that he went out. But where did he go? No place that he wants you to know, that’s for sure. You seem to always know vaguely what he’s doing. He’s “going out with friends,” or “going for drinks with colleagues.” Do you know who they are or where they’re going? Probably not.
#5 He’s on Tinder. Well, this is one of the most obvious signs that he is cheating on you. If your friends discover him on Tinder or another dating app, don’t ignore it and just act like he forgot to cancel his membership. Oh, he’s on it, and he’s swiping. He’s swiping hard.
#6 There’s unsaved numbers in his phone. He just has a list of unsaved numbers on his phone that you’ve never seen. No, they’re not the pizza guy. Unless it’s a girl who delivers pizza naked at his hotel room, that is. Those are most likely numbers of women… women who shouldn’t be around your man.
#7 Doesn’t like you touching his electronics. His iPhone, iPad, laptop – yeah, you’re not allowed near them. In fact, don’t even come into eye contact with it because it’ll upset him.
#8 He is looking good all of a sudden. Like, too good… you know what I mean? The baggy jeans that used to be his favorite? Long gone. He’s now wearing form-fitting shirts, sliding that gel in his hair, and it’s not for you. It’s for her. He’s peacocking right in front of your face. One of the huge signs that he is cheating on you.
#9 He’s going out more. He’s now a social butterfly! He’s suddenly sprouted from his cocoon. Yawn. He’s having a good time without you, of course. If he’s suddenly going out on weekends and weeknights without you, going to dinners and clubs, that’s a good sign.
#10 He has to work late… a lot. The boss has really been clamping down on him lately. Oh, give me a break. He’s not working late. I mean, he’s working, but he ain’t getting paid for it.