Girls aren’t the only one who need to feel happy in a relationship. Of course, your boyfriend also needs that extraordinary joy you can give to him. Making your partner happy is vital in a relationship. In fact that is one of the ingredients to making your relationship stronger and long lasting.
Now if you’re struggling to find ways on how to make your boyfriend happy, you’re in the right place. Check out the list below to know how.
1. Compliment him.
Not only girls’ love compliments, boys love it too. Who wouldn’t like being told that they look good or they are smart? The stereotype that guys don’t care about how they look is a thing of the unreal past. Compliment your boyfriend and tell him about what you like about him, how he makes you go crazy, or how he looks good on that white shirt. It will surely bring a smile on his face.
2. Tell and show how much you love him.
It’s not hard to tell how much you love him and it’s not even harder to show how much you adore him. So, do it by saying ‘I love you’, or making little efforts like leaving him sweet notes, or cooking for him.
3. Comfort him.
When he’s tired from work, school, or if he’s going through a lot for the past few weeks, be there to comfort him. A simple hug, kiss, or words of encouragement like “You’ll feel better” can make his gloomy days brighter and would show the curves on his lip.
4. Give him your attention.
Taking your boyfriend for granted isn’t always a good idea. Instead, give him your full attention and make him feel wanted. Get off your phone and listen when he talks. Pay him the attention he deserves because every moment you spend with him is very important.
5. Be honest to him.
Being honest no matter how difficult it is, is one of the best ways to make your boyfriend happy. Always be open to him and don’t hide secrets. In that case, you will not only make him feel happy but you’ll also get the same satisfaction he feels because he will also be honest towards you.
6. Give him space.
This is one of the most important keys when it comes to making your boyfriend happy. Probably, you love spending time with your partner but there are also times in every relationship when you just need to give each other space to grow as individuals. So, give him space to be with himself, hang out with friends, or focus at work.
7. Trust him.
No one’s going to be happy in a relationship if they don’t feel like they are trusted. Show him your trust simply by, giving him space and foster kindness, share how you feel, have faith in your partner’s capabilities, and leave his phone alone.
8. Show your support to him.
Having the desire and ability to be a supportive partner is one of the important things you should do in order to keep him happy. Support him in his work and hobbies by offering positive words of encouragement, be his cheerleader, compliment him to make him feel great, and respect his career dreams. Your support will count.
9. Be a fun girl.
Be spontaneous and cheerful around your boyfriend. Look for ways to make him laugh, or aim to do something fun together. You can try a new sport together, or go somewhere different. Just remember that the idea here is not to do something expensive, but to do something fun.
10. Hug him.
Guys love sweet embraces; they melt like butter when it comes to sweet affectionate moments. So, run up to him and hug him tight out of the blue, he’ll adore you the way you feel in his arms.
11. Make him feel appreciated.
Appreciating your partner on a daily basis is a great way to make him feel happy. Notice the little things on him- like his new haircut, you can also cook meal for him, bring him coffee, or tell him how much you love and miss him. These simple efforts will definitely going to make him a happy guy.
12. Surprise him.
This may be simple but it’s one of the best ways to keep your boyfriend happy. It doesn’t have to be something huge or expensive because it’s the thought that counts. You can write a love letter, prepare him a packed lunch, bring him breakfast in bed, bake for him, take him out, or even give him a massage.
13. Always be there for him.
Be there when he needs a shoulder to lean on or when he’s down in the dumps. It would mean so much for him if you stay by his side to support him during his downcast. You don’t have to talk much, just listen and be there. Your presence is more than enough to bring a smile on his face.
14. Accept his flaws.
Everyone has flaws to deal with, but it feels better to have someone who can accept it. So, accept that your boyfriend is not perfect, focus on what makes your partner so unique and observe how the positive expands.
15. Be Yourself.
Who would feel happy towards a partner that is a great pretender? Of course all of us want to be with someone who is confident with herself. So be yourself and keep looking pretty instead of pretending to be someone else. That’s the simplest thing you can do to make your guy happy.
When a guy sees his girl happy, he can’t help but be happy as well. So as much as possible, smile, laugh and be cheerful when you’re together because your happiness is his happiness too.