You fall in love. You are like on a cloud. You forget your problems. You see life in pink and you just think of it.
Then suddenly you start to feel something that you hadn’t felt before.
You feel that your man is no longer the same as before and you cannot get rid of this horrible feeling.
Are you familiar with that?
Well, that’s what happens in many relationships and all women would die to hear advice that could help them solve this problem.
So if your man has stopped covering you up and you’re feeling crappy, here’s what you can do:
1. Leave him alone for a moment
The worst you can do is force him to tell you what’s going on with him. That way, you risk making things worse.
Instead, leave him alone. Yes, you heard me right.
Leave him alone so he can think about his life and the things he wants. Do not affect it in any way.
Don’t call him, send him messages and most importantly, don’t insist on seeing him if he’s not ready for it.
Once he has spent some time alone, he will know if he wants to be with you or if he wants to continue his life without you.
The point is, you can’t influence his decision, so it’s best that you leave him alone because he knows what’s best for him.
2. When he comes back, act like a friend, not an enemy
It is true that you are not guilty of the things that happen to him, but as his beloved, you must stay with him in his good times as in the bad.
Especially in the bad.
So, if something like that happened to him, don’t draw hasty conclusions, but be smart.
You are not going to get anything if you behave like an enemy.
Instead, talk to them like a friend and tell them that you understand that they are going through a crisis, but that you also want to help them.
That way, he’ll know he can count on you the next time he goes through something bad.
3. Once it has returned to “normal mode” ask why it was like this
When your man has decided that you are the one he wants to be with, you can ask him why he left.
You deserve to know the answers and you should get them. Because you found yourself wondering why this is so and how to be able to help it.
It was you who spent sleepless nights staring at the laptop screen, hoping it would call.
I am not saying that he did not suffer, but you also suffered, especially since you did not know what happened.
So you have the right to ask him why he did it and why he didn’t allow you to help him.
If he likes you, he will be open to anything and if he tells you that he doesn’t want to talk about it, you should think twice if you want to be with a man who doesn’t trust you.
4. Remember that you have a life even if it is not there
If your man has decided to move away, that doesn’t mean you should just focus on him.
Focus on yourself and your life, especially if you are not sure it will ever come back.
You can’t lose sleep because of a man who doesn’t want you to know anything about him.
You cannot help him if he does not allow it. Be patient enough and continue living your life normally.
If he comes back, you can talk about what happened with him and decide if there is a future for you two. Any problem can be resolved if there is good will.
So at the end of the day, it’s up to him to decide if he will come back or not and it’s up to you to decide if you will cry every night or if you will continue to live your life proudly.
5. Always put yourself in first place, no matter how much you like it
It hurts when your man walks away, but it’s not a reason for you to stop worrying about everything else.
You should always put yourself first, no matter how much you love it.
It is good to help him if he wants to, but it is not a good idea to worry about someone who is not sure of you.
You will end up being hurt that way and, believe me, you don’t want this to happen. If he has problems, try to be by his side if he lets you do it.
By doing so, you show him that you love him and that he can always count on you.
But if he intends to do so all the time, you should not bear it. You should take care of yourself when they are not doing it.
You should build your happiness without him and not depend on him to be happy.
It is only when you realize this that you will be truly happy.