Relationships are all about compatibility.
Even if there’s a lot of infatuation and sexual tension to start with, all it takes is a few wrong likes and dislikes to fall apart.
For a relationship to be successful, both the partners can have different likes and dislikes, but their principles towards life and their approach towards the future have to be the same.
If one of you likes working hard while the other person lives for the moment, it is bound to leave one of you with a few moments of repressed anger.
Getting to know the one you love early into a relationship can help both of you learn more about each other faster.[Read: How to be a happy couple that’s envied by all]
Questions to get to know each other
Sometimes, the right answers can make all the difference between a failed romance and a happy one.
At Lovepanky, we’ve compiled 60 light hearted questions that you can ask your new mate, either through an email or by asking each other in person *though email would be preferable*.
It may seem funny at first, but deep inside each of these questions is a subtle answer that tests your compatibility.
Both of you don’t have to agree on the same answers. But when your new lover answers these questions for you, take a good look at each answer and ask yourself if you’re comfortable with the answers.
Some of these answers will reveal your partner’s lifestyle and goals, while a few others will reveal the way they approach life. And a few more will reveal their sexual preferences and expectations from a partner. And when you do get the answers to these 60 questions, you’ll truly know if you’re in a relationship that can stand the test of time.[Read: New relationship advice to make your romance work]
60 get to know you questions that matter
These questions can be a laugh, but it’ll definitely help both of you get to know each other a lot more in no time.
#1 Are you an animal lover or would you avoid keeping animals at home?
#2 Do you like summer or winter?
#3 Would you diet or would you work out?
#4 What do you wear to bed? [Read: The right way to dress for sex]
#5 What’s your favorite clothing brand?
#6 When was the last time you cried?
#7 Which color reflects your personality and why?
#8 In the animal kingdom, which animal would you be?
#9 Do you like tattoos and body piercing?
#10 How much PDA is acceptable? [Read: 10 public display of affection laws]
#11 How often do you take a shower?
#12 What are your favorite magazines?
#13 What are your favorite books?
#14 What’s your favorite movie?
#15 What’s your favorite music you’re listening to these days?
#16 What’s your favorite alcoholic drink?
#17 What’s your favorite vacation idea?
#18 What’s your favorite food?
#19 Who’s your favorite actor?
#20 If you found a briefcase of money on the street, would you keep it?
#21 Are you religious?
#22 Are you a gizmo person?
#23 What kind of sport do you like?
#24 Clubbing or candlelight dinner?
#25 Earth Hour or Fourth of July fireworks?
#26 Backpacking or a luxury hotel?
#27 Christmas or Halloween?
#28 Are you a morning person?
#29 What’s your philosophy in life?
#30 When was the last time you were happy you lied?
#31 What comes to your mind when you think of your exes? [Read: 13 secret signs your boyfriend is not over his ex]
#32 Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
#33 What’s your idea of romance?
#34 Would you like to live in the countryside or in a metropolitan area?
#35 When did you lose your virginity?
#36 What’s your favorite body part of the opposite sex?
#37 What’s the wildest thing you’ve done sexually? [Read: Top 50 sexual kinky ideas for a sexy relationship]
#38 Do you think money can buy happiness?
#39 The world would be a better place if…?
#40 Do you have any social causes that are close to your heart?
#41 What do you do over the weekends?
#42 Would you mind if I had a best friend of the opposite sex? [Read: Why guy best friends are nothing but trouble]
#43 Which was the worst phase in your life?
#44 What was the happiest moment in your life?
#45 Do you judge a book by its cover?
#46 What’s your political stance?
#47 Do you watch porn and what’s your view on it?
#48 Do you believe in karma?
#49 Do you plan your life or live for the moment?
#50 Do you think life is fair?
#51 If you were marooned on an island, what are the five things you would take with you? [Read: 25 sweet romantic gestures for everyday life]
#52 Would you sulk or would you confront?
#53 Are you addicted to anything?
#54 Any current news that’s caught your attention?
#55 What are your favorite apps that you use often?
#56 Are you an optimist or a pessimist?
#57 What do you have for breakfast?
#58 How often do you make your bed?
#59 If you knew you were right, would you take a stand even if you know you would make a scene in public or would you let it go?
#60 What’s an absolute no-no in a relationship?
Just ask your new lover these 60 get to know you questions, and by the time you’re down to the sixtieth question, you’d definitely know a lot more about each other and your compatibility.