Should you date a MILF? This may sound like something you and your bros joke about or see as a bad pun in a movie, but the reality is that it may be the most fun, adventurous thing you do in your young relationship life.
MILF, of course, meaning a mother you’d like to f*ck, may also simply refer to a woman in her 30s, 40s or above going out with a younger man. They are also referred to as cougars. While these are supposed to be different meanings, they sometimes get melded together. Regardless, there are plenty of highlights to dating an older woman that should make the option definitely worth considering!
Why you should date a MILF
Let’s face it, dating a MILF is a fantasy for a lot of younger men. If it’s not one of your fantasies, allow us to tell you why it should be.
#1 She’s got a wild sex drive. It’s said that women reach their peak sex drive in their thirties, while men have their peak in their 20s. This makes for a perfect libido match-up when dating an older woman. Many women in their 30s and above can wholeheartedly vouch for this fact, saying that orgasms in their 30s and beyond are the most powerful ones of their lives. Ready to make your girlfriend shake and shiver? Date a MILF!
#2 She’s a mom. And moms are super fun. The staple behind being with a mom you’d like to f*ck is that your girlfriend, in fact, is a mom! While it might sound a little creepy to bring up moms and motherhood when talking about your lover, the truth is moms are more patient and definitely know how to have fun. Plus, if you’re into hanging out with the younger crowd you’d better believe she’s got a ton of cool toys and even cooler kids to interact with!
#3 She’s got life experience like you won’t believe. Older women have more experience… in everything! She’s had her fair share of lovers by this point in her life, and she definitely knows what she likes and what she’s doing. She’s full of sexual gusto and life experience that will definitely teach you a thing or two.
Not only is she probably more patient and less selfish than a woman in her 20s, but she’s not afraid to tell you what she wants – and there’s nothing sexier than a woman who knows exactly what she wants.
#4 She’s more independent. While it’s not out of the realm of possibility to get a clingy cougar, odds are she’s got her own life established, and she’s not afraid to spend her time there. While you will obviously have a special spot as her boyfriend, she also has her career and her kids to think about. Don’t be afraid of mentioning a night off with the guys when dating an older woman.
Being an independent woman also means she likely has her own source of cash flow and won’t be relying solely on you for goods and expenses.
#5 She isn’t social media obsessed. If you are sick of seeing you girlfriend checking her phone every five minutes to update her Instagram, check her Facebook, or retweet Kim Kardashian’s latest ounce of printed wisdom, then you’ll likely find solace in dating an older MILF. That’s not to say she won’t be social media savvy, but you better believe it’s not going to be her life.
#6 She’s way less likely to play games. Because she’s no longer 19 and suffering from attention issues, your older girlfriend is less likely to play head games with you, or tempt you into tricky conversations all for the purpose of starting an argument.
Dating an older woman means she’ll be more likely to come out and tell you what she wants, as opposed to making you guess. Granted, she is still a woman, so don’t expect all the games to be completely off the table.
#7 You’ll grow up. Another perk of dating a MILF is that she’ll whip you into mature and manly shape. As much as she loves your sex drive and passion to please her, she doesn’t like your pouty attitude. After all, she already has kids! She doesn’t need another one.
Things to consider when dating a MILF
Alright, so dating a MILF is sounding pretty awesome, right? Right! But there’s still a couple of things you should keep in mind before you jump into the dating world with an older woman.
#1 Do you want kids? If she’s older, her chances of getting pregnant are significantly diminished. If you’re not looking forward to fatherhood, then you have nothing to worry about, but if you dream of being a biological father someday and you’re finding yourself in deep with this older woman, then this may be something to consider.
If she isn’t able to get pregnant and you want kids, take solace in the fact that she already has some that she’d more than appreciate you lavishing with affection.
#2 Make sure she’s not already in a relationship/marriage. So dating a MILF has some great perks, but you should really make sure that she isn’t already married! While older women have matured, older men *like her husband, for example* will still want to kick your ass for messing with their girl. Get answers before you start something!
#3 If the kids like you, she’s going to like you. While she may not want to introduce you to the kiddies right away, just remember that while a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, the way to a mother’s heart is through her kids. So you’d better be sure to make a fantastic impression on her little ones. If you plan on pursuing a serious relationship with this woman, her kids are always going to be there, so get to know and like them now.
If you’re not into having a serious relationship, then you may be in luck, she might not either! Just like men in their 20s aren’t usually itching to settle down, a worldly wise woman in her 30s or 40s probably isn’t either. In fact, she’s probably already been there and done that. What she wants now is to have some fun with you, so enjoy!
