You’ve been searching for love for some time now and started thinking that maybe it’s time to give up. You’ve resolved that some people are destined to stay single forever – and you’re one of them.
Wrong. You won’t find love if you merely give up. Every person has a soulmate and you are no exception.
Your soulmate is out there somewhere, also ready to meet you and patiently waiting.
Maybe all your failed relationships left you with so many insecurities and made you think that you are unlovable.
Perhaps think it’s time to accept that you don’t deserve to be loved.
Wrong again. Just the opposite. God sent you those people to make you understand that not everybody deserves your love.
He wanted to show you what true love should never look like. That no matter what, you have to appreciate yourself and not let others treat you any less than you deserve.
Never lose hope or give up on love. We all have different paths in life, but they all lead us to our soulmates. You just have to be patient and trust the universe on this one.
Here are some things to pay attention to for every person that is struggling to find love for some time now.
1. Love is within you
You shouldn’t be trying so hard to find love, because love is already there. Love is within you.
You need to love yourself first, then you’ll be ready to love another person.
Fall in love with yourself so you can enjoy your own company. Fall in love with yourself because you are stuck with yourself for the rest of your life, so it’s your duty to make that time wonderful.
When you learn to love yourself properly, you won’t let anyone else love you less than that.
You will know your worth and not let other people make you feel anything less than the invaluable jewel you are.
Without sufficient self-love, you’ll never be capable of truly loving someone else. Self-love is the greatest love of all.
2. Trust the timing of your life
Don’t rush anything. You should know that your soulmate is somewhere waiting for you too. They can’t wait to meet you because you’ll be everything they’ve been looking for.
You don’t need to search for your soulmate. Believe in fate – it’ll do the work for you.
Destiny will always find its way to bring soulmates together. It’s her job!
Maybe her timing isn’t always on your clock, but when you finally meet your soulmate, you’ll see that it was worth waiting for.
3. God is always on your side
Always trust in God’s plan because He has good reasons for all of His actions. Sometimes we can’t understand it, but trust me, God is always doing what’s the best for you.
He may remove someone from your life because that person was wrong for you, or because someone better is yet to come.
Sometimes, He even may allow some toxic people in your life. It’s not because He wants you to suffer, but because He wants to teach you a lesson.
He wants you to learn that not all people are worthy of your love and that you shouldn’t blindly trust the people who only say that they love you, without showing it.
4. Enjoy your freedom
What’s wrong with being single? You’ll have the rest of your life to share it with someone else, so why shouldn’t you enjoy your freedom?
Believe me, one day you’ll regret these solo-flying days and be sorry for all the dreams that you could’ve fulfilled yet didn’t.
You won’t be able to do it later because of all those responsibilities that life will bring you afterwards.
This is the only time you’ll be free to do all the things you’ve always wanted to. This is the time of your life when you’ll be free to enjoy time spent with friends whenever you want.
You’ll never be able to get these days back. Dance like nobody’s watching, date whoever you want, stay out late, do whatever makes you happy.
Just don’t think about the future too much. Relax and enjoy being single.
5. Focus on yourself
Don’t waste time just sitting there and waiting for the love of your life to appear. Finding a person who’ll love you and being in a relationship doesn’t have to define your life.
There are plenty of other things in life to enjoy other than love. While you’re single, you can focus on those things.
Work on yourself. Learn new skills that you’ve always wanted to learn. Try some things you’ve never tried before.
Read books. Test out new recipes.
Change your appearance. You’ve always thought that dying your hair is a big commitment and that’s why you’ve never had the courage to try those shades you like so much.
Now is the opportunity to be brave and experiment with those bright colors.
Be more productive in every possible way. Find some time to run in nature or go for a walk in the park. You’ll see how relaxing it can be. Who knows, maybe that’s where you’ll meet your soulmate.
6. Surround yourself with people who love you
Being around those who care for you is soul food. They’ll make you feel better because your well-being is important to them.
They’ll do whatever it takes to cheer you up. They can’t be happy if you aren’t. They’ll encourage you to work on yourself every day. Those people are your true friends.
You’ll realize that you’ve found love within those friendships. After all, true friends are rare and they are love too. Maybe a different kind of love, but still…
Hang out with a person who knows all of your secrets and has never betrayed you.
A friend who’s ready to ride with you through the good and the bad times. That’s what a soulmate actually is, right?
7. Maybe your heart still isn’t ready?
After your last relationship and your heartbreak, you may think that you left it in the past already – that you have healed and are ready to move on.
But your heart doesn’t agree with you. It needs more time to heal. It needs some time more before it decides to love someone again.
Give yourself more time. Your heart deserves it. Your last love broke it into hundred pieces and it’s not easy to put them back together.
It’s scared of a new love and the possibility of getting broken again. It’s normal that your heart is afraid that a new heartbreak might be too much and you wouldn’t be able to recover from it.
Don’t bother too much about finding love, because it will find you when you least expect it.
The universe will surprise you by sending you a person who’ll be all you ever looked for – without looking!
One day, your forever love will come. And that day is closer than you think. You just have to be patient, have faith, and trust God with all your heart.
That day you’ll thank me for not losing hope. You’ll understand how many great things you’d have missed if you had given up.