So, you think you’re in love! Or at least crushing on a hot girl. Either way, you just don’t seem to know if the feeling is mutual. I know they say that it’s difficult to figure women out, but if you know how to read them, it’s not difficult at all. Not all girls may drop hints or signs that she’s not interested, but if you know how to read them well, you’ll see the right signs in no time!
10 signs that she’s not interested in you
After you read these signs she’s not interested in you, you’ll probably think, “Doh!” In other words, these are pretty obvious signs that she’s not interested. But sometimes we’re blinded by love and we miss these red flags – or even choose to ignore them.
But fear not… here are the ways you can know that she’s not interested.
#1 She doesn’t text you back quickly. So, you send her a text at noon. The hours go by. Suddenly, it’s 5:00… then 6:00… then midnight. Why hasn’t she looked at her phone in the last 12 hours? Trust me, she has. She has just chosen not to text you back right away – on purpose.
#2 When she does reply, it’s just with a word or two. It might even be a day or two until she responds. And when she does, it might just be something like “Lol” or “Sure” or “Yup.” She isn’t interested in having an ongoing long texting conversation, because it’s one of the signs that she’s not interested in you.
#3 She doesn’t get close to you and avoids physical contact. If you guys go out to a sports bar and sit at a table, she will sit across from you, not beside you. And she won’t playfully touch your arm or maybe not even hug you. She doesn’t want to give you the wrong idea.
#4 If you ever hear the word “friend” when she is referring to you. Guys, please hear this! If a girl says, “I think we would be great friends,” or “I think we’re better as friends,” well, this is one of the HUGE signs that she’s not interested. But it’s amazing how many guys don’t think she’s serious, or take it as a sign that she doesn’t really mean it. Trust me… she DOES mean it.
#5 She doesn’t give you firm answers about whether you can get together. If you try to make plans with her, she says vague things like, “Sounds fun!” If she’s not saying things like, “Great! What day and time should we go?” then it’s one of the signs that she’s not interested.
#6 You haven’t met any of her friends. If she’s into you, then she will want to get all of her friends’ opinions. So, she will introduce you to them. Or even if she does have you meet her friends, maybe it’s because she considers you one of her friends too and wants to include you in her gang. Get my point?
#7 She always “has to check her calendar.” Similar to #5, saying she has to check her calendar is another way of saying, “I really don’t want to, so because I’ll take a long time to check my calendar, and I hope you forget about it in the meantime.”
#8 She never initiates communication. If she’s into you, she will initiate talking to you AT LEAST 50% of the time. But if you’re the only one who always sends the texts first, then you are not on her mind. Even girls who are trying to play hard to get don’t play THAT hard to get. She’s trying to send you one of the signs that she’s not interested.
#9 She never suggests that you hang out. Not only does she not initiate communication with you, she never tries to make any plans with you. Why? Because you are low on her priority list. She has other people she’d rather hang out with.
#10 She only wants to hang out with you in groups. Let’s face it, if the two of you are alone, then there is more of a chance that some passion could happen. Or that you could get the idea that she may want it to happen. So, it’s easier for her if you just hang out in groups. That way, you won’t get the wrong idea.