Being abandoned by the person you love most is devastating, it’s one of the most painful things you can experience – there’s no question about it.
But what’s even more devastating is having to accept that if this person has left us, it’s simply because they didn’t love us.
Because let’s be honest – admitting that our love is not wanted is the hardest thing in the world, even if it is only the pure truth.
So rather than accepting it, we constantly try to justify the acts and attitudes of the boy in question.
Rather than accepting the truth, we continue to seek justification for the fact that he abandoned us.
We continue to lie to each other so that we can continue to love him, nourish our false hopes, and wait for him to come back to us as if nothing had happened.
I hate being the one to tell you because I know it’s the last thing you want to hear and even what you’re trying to run away from, but this man doesn’t like you.
And I know that deep down, you are aware of this painful reality, but rather than facing it, you spend your time silencing this little voice inside you, which screams at you the truth.
Make no mistake – your ex may have loved you one day, or at least had feelings for you, but it’s more than obvious that he doesn’t love you, loves you enough, or doesn’t love you more like before.
Because when you love someone, you don’t abandon them. Everything else is just a false excuse.
No, he does not need time to see clearly. No, he didn’t leave you because he realized you were too good for him.
No, it’s not a question of bad timing. No, he is not emotionally unavailable and is not a commitment phobia.
He just doesn’t care enough for you to fight for your relationship.
He does not care enough for you to stay by your side for the worst and the best and to do his best to solve some problems you may face.
Because when a real man is in love, he stays by your side no matter what.
He fights by your side to solve problems and does his best to overcome any obstacle that stands in your way.
When a man is in love, he wants to make sacrifices for the good of your couple.
He is ready to move mountains for your love and nothing, and no one could stop him from doing so.
When a real man is in love, he also loves you in your good times, as in your worst moments. He understands you and becomes your best friend, not just your lover.
This man would not even think of leaving you at the first obstacle.
No, he would see you as partners and would have many other ideas to put into practice than that of giving up his half.
When you’re with a man, a real man, he does everything in his power to find more reasons to love you and he would never think that you are not worthy of his love.
He would never compare you to other women because he would be unable to imagine himself with anyone other than you.
For this man, leaving is not an option, despite all the hardships you may face. He knows that love requires work and taking a step back would not be possible for him.
But let’s be honest – your ex is not that man and he can never be.
No, it was a coward who abandoned you at the first test. And thus showed you that it is not and will never be worthy of your love.
Yes, giving up on him is difficult, but you have to understand that you are crying for someone who has never deserved you.
That you put your life on hold for someone who has moved on for a long time.
Above all, you have to realize that you are in fact lucky to have been able to get rid of this immature boy.
That you should thank him for leaving you and breaking your heart.
Because if he had not done so, he would not have cleared the way for the man who will come into your life and show you what true love is.
He could not have given way to the man who will stay by your side in good times as in bad times and who is supposed to be your happy ending.