Whoever said relationships were easy, they’re probably single. In fact, relationships come with a lot of work. Including the bedroom, because nothing in a relationship should be ignored. These 16 ways on how to pleasure your girlfriend will rev you up to spice up your bedroom activities.
How to pleasure your girlfriend – 10 golden moves
A great area to invest in is the bedroom. If things aren’t going well there, your relationship won’t be getting any better. So if you’re not sure how to begin, this is how to pleasure your girlfriend, the right way!
#1 Bring out the massage oil. Everyone likes having a massage, I know you want one too, but you can’t be thinking about yourself right now. So, get some oil, lay her on the bed and give her a sensual massage.
I know you probably won’t be able to control yourself for too long, but at least try. She’ll feel so relaxed and calm after her massage, and you’ll be able to feel every inch of her body.
#2 Start the foreplay in advance. You don’t have to be naked for foreplay. In fact, you’ll make her go crazy if you keep your clothes on. Men like foreplay, they like penetration even more. However, foreplay for women is what makes them horny. The longer you spend in foreplay, the crazier she’ll become.
#3 Ask what turns her on. If you’re doing something and not getting the reaction you’re hoping for, maybe it’s time to switch up the routine. You know what’s even better than trying to put the pieces of a puzzle together? Simply ask what makes her horny. That way, you know, she’ll be satisfied and everyone’s happy. Don’t make it a guessing game—just figure out what gets her off and go from there.
#4 Compliment her. In the beginning of relationships, everyone compliments each other. She looks stunning, he looks handsome. As time passes, the compliments dwindle and become a rarity. Don’t let that happen.
Compliment your girlfriend and let her know that she’s beautiful and gets you horny. Don’t overdo it with the compliments, but every now and then, tell her how you feel. This makes her feel good and gets her s*xually aroused.
#5 Know the female body. You must know the female body. Educate yourself on it, because there are so many parts of the body to turn a woman on. Breasts, clitoris, neck. Know what areas are super sensitive and what areas aren’t.
There’s a reason why women like being kissed on the neck. It stimulates their senses because of its sensitivity. These are the areas you should aim for.
#6 Surprise her. Everyone loves surprises! Why not have a surprise quickie? Before you’re out the door to head to work and give her a surprise wake up call. Surprise quickies are fun and show her that she turns you on, no matter what time of day it is.
#7 Crazy 8. If you’re giving oral s*x, try out the “crazy 8” with your tongue. If you’re not sure what a crazy 8 is, it’s exactly how it sounds. With your tongue, make an eight shape. It drives women crazy, trust me, your girlfriend will love it.
#8 Kisses, kisses, kisses. Women love kissing. We love it. We love making out, we love sensuality—we love it all. So, don’t be so fast to move past the kisses. Take your time and have an old school, make out session. It’s fun, it’s intimate. Plus, women take longer to s*xually arouse, so this is a great thing to do while you’re warming up.
#9 Be passionate. If she likes a little more passion, be passionate. Take her out or make her a passionate dinner, light the candles, do the rose petals. If she’s into that, she’ll be automatically turned on. Plus, it shows your girlfriend how much you care about her and that’s also a huge turn on.
#10 Lead her. Sometimes we like to lead, but when we’re in bed, nothing gets us off more than a man who takes control. Want to know how to pleasure your girlfriend right? Flip her, lift her, move her around. Take control and give her a roller coaster ride.
It turns us on for two reasons: firstly, we can’t control you, and secondly, it looks like you know exactly what you’re doing and that’s hot.
