Aries: March 21st – April 19th
You are a self-proclaimed bitch. You like to act tough, but your insides are soft. You are secretly vulnerable, you let the outside world impact you, but you don’t let anyone know that. You would rather put on mask, acting like you never want to get married and settle down, than risk putting your heart on the line and getting hurt again. You consider yourself unlovable because the idea of falling in love is too much for you to take.
Taurus: April 20th – May 20th
Your heart is snagged on an old relationship. Since someone from your past failed to return your love, you have jumped to the conclusion you are unlovable as a whole. You assume if someone you put so much effort into, someone who seemed to fit you so well, does not want to be with you then no one else will either. You are having trouble accepting that one failed relationship does not mean you are destined to be alone eternally.
Gemini: May 21st – June 20th
You are so insecure that even when people tell you how much they care about you, you think they are lying. You push people away because you refuse to believe they are there for the right reasons. You have made up a story in your mind about the way people view you and are sticking to it. You are lying to yourself to protect yourself. You think you are saving yourself, but you are sabotaging yourself.
Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd
For centuries, the mountain has been used as a metaphor for the big challenges we face, especially ones that seem impossible to overcome. To scale our mountains, we actually have to do the deep internal work of excavating trauma, building resilience, and adjusting how we show up for the climb. In the end, it is not the mountain we master, but ourselves.
Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd
You have always been your own worst critic. While other people only see the surface, you see the flaws buried deep beneath your skin. You feel like no one is going to love you, because you can’t even say you love yourself. You have struggled with your self-worth for a lifetime and it has slowly lowered your confidence. It has made you wonder whether you are going to be alone forever.
Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd
Your flaws block your vision, making it impossible for you to see your strengths. You always talk about what a horrible girlfriend you would make because you’re selfish and outspoken and unforgiving. You laugh it off like it’s a joke but you’re secretly scared you’re telling the truth. You’re letting your doubts convince you that no one out there would put up with you for long.
Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd
You feel unlovable because you are completely alone. You have lost friends. You have cut contact with family members. You have no dating prospects in sight. You are convinced the reason you are suddenly isolated is because you have done something wrong. Because you are unworthy of a friend, let alone a lover. You are letting your temporary loneliness crack your resolve.
Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st
You have baggage you are unable to unload. You feel like no one is going to stick around once they get to know the real you, the dark you, the struggling you. You have trouble believing that anyone would love you at your worst. Whenever someone expresses feelings for you, you assume it’s only because they don’t know the real you yet. You assume it’s only a matter of time before they come to their senses and walk away.
Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st
You are a literal person. Someone who thinks with logic. Since you have never been loved before, you have come to the conclusion it is never going to happen. Otherwise, it would have already. You feel like the past is an indication of your future. You assume history is bound to repeat itself. You cannot imagine being loved, because you have never seen it firsthand.
Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th
You have allowed your heart to grow cold. Years of disappointment have turned you into a skeptic. In your mind, love means pain. Love means confusion. Love means more stress. You call yourself unlovable because you do not want to be loved. You would rather be left alone. You would rather tell yourself it’s better this way.
Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th
Your kindness has been taken advantage of countless times. You feel like you’re always going to be the person who gets half of what she wants. You feel like love is always temporary. Like no one will stick around forever. Your fear of abandonment is messing with your common sense. It is convincing you that you are good enough for a night, but not good enough for forever, which is far from the reality.
Pisces: February 19th – March 20th
Everyone wants to be your texting buddy — but they never want to be more than that. You are an almost. You are a backup plan. You are just a friend. Whenever you are halfway to a relationship, you are stopped short. You feel like you are never going to be loved fully, because people only seem to want you around as an option, not an only.